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Today, I am inviting you to join me on a journey of exploration, an exploration of our deepest selves and the divine purpose that God has laid in our hearts. This journey is centered on one profound question, "Why?" This seemingly simple question is a powerful guide in our lives.

So, what is your 'why'? It is the essence of your existence, representing your deepest values, beliefs, and the divine purpose that God has blessed you with. It’s the driving force behind your actions and the passionate energy that propels your life’s work. Your 'why' is not just a philosophical concept or point to ponder but a practical guide that can help you navigate through life’s many twists and turns.

In our journey towards self-improvement and becoming our best selves, we must remember that the goal is not to achieve perfection. Perfection is an illusion that can often lead to disappointment. Instead, our goal should be to make consistent progress. The journey towards personal growth and transformation begins from within. It's about embracing our challenges, acknowledging where we are currently, and fostering lasting change from within.

The Path Toward Transformation

The path toward transformation doesn’t start with external actions or quick fixes. Deep, meaningful change often comes from experiences that create enough discomfort or pain to push us to do something different, shift our perspectives, and alter our path.

In order to gain deep insights into personal growth and identity, it's crucial to take a deep dive into our motivators - our intrinsic 'why.' Understanding the motive behind our desire for change is the first step toward meaningful progress and transformation.

Reflecting on what being our best self entails helps align our actions with our deeper aspirations and goals. When our actions are aligned with our 'why,’ we move with a sense of purpose and direction. We become more engaged in our activities and more resilient in the face of obstacles.

Today, I encourage you to take some time for self-reflection. Dive deep into your motivators, your intrinsic 'why.' Ask yourself, what is it that you really want? Then ask yourself, why do you want it? Keep asking 'why' until you get real, raw, and honest with yourself. This process of self-inquiry might be challenging, but it holds the key to your deepest desires and aspirations.

Scripture for the Soul

Your 'why' is a beautiful gift from God. It's a beacon of light guiding your steps towards a purpose-filled life. Philippians 1:21 says, "And I trust that my life will bring honor to Christ, whether I live or die. For to me, living means living for Christ, and dying is even better. But if I live, I can do more fruitful work for Christ." This verse reminds us that our 'why' is deeply connected to the purpose God has for us.

Embracing Change

Change is challenging. It's hard to let go of familiar faces, favorite places, and old habits. It's like a part of us dies when we decide to change. But being stuck in a cycle of wishing and wanting, without taking any action, is just as hard. It's like we're settling for comfort, but comfort isn't growth. In fact, it's the opposite. It's like a slow death to our hopes, dreams, and desires. As we travel through our journey, it's important to be brave, step out of our comfort zones, and be ready to let go - or let die - parts of our old selves.

To truly embrace our 'why,’ we must be willing to confront the deepest, darkest parts of our lives that we have kept buried. We all have limited capacity, and we've been carrying this weight around. It's time to unpack and sort through each piece, choosing to keep, save, or discard, letting go of what no longer serves you. As you discard the things that no longer serve you, you make room for more of what you really do want in your life.

As we continue on this journey of self-discovery, deepening our faith, and stepping into our purpose, let's do so with intention. We should embrace each lesson and challenge as a stepping stone to our future selves.

Points to Ponder

I encourage you to recall the times you've felt truly alive and fulfilled. What were you doing, and who were you with? What trials and tribulations have you overcome? What beliefs or values have kept you going? Envision your ideal life. How are you making an impact? Who are you with? What are you doing? Focus on the vision and then ask yourself, how does your faith shape this (God-sized) vision?

Our journey isn’t a race to perfection but a path filled with growth and grace. Let’s give thanks for the gift of each new day, which gives us an opportunity to learn, grow, and become a better version of ourselves. By committing to progress, we welcome the transformative power of every small step and begin to live with a heart overflowing with gratitude and self-love.

Spiritual Fitness

In Chapter 16, "Spiritual Fitness," of my book “Chasing Perfection: A Journey to Healing, Fitness, and Self-Love,” I dive deeper into the process of discovering your 'why' through a technique I term "Mind Funneling." To gain more clarity about my 'why,' I had to dig deeper, use mind funneling, and ask, "What's really going on here?" I encourage you to read more about this process, which might assist you in understanding your 'why' on your journey.

You are not alone

Remember, you are not alone on this journey. Let's inspire and uplift one another, sharing our stories and experiences as we navigate this path together. Let's make a pact to support each other in our individual journeys towards self-discovery and self-improvement. In doing so, we create a community that is not just about personal growth but also about shared growth.

I look forward to hearing about your personal 'why' and how it guides you in your journey. In sharing our 'why,’ we inspire others to discover theirs, creating a ripple effect of positive change and growth. So, let's embark on this journey together, sharing our stories and inspiring each other to become our best selves.

XO,

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P.S. For more inspiration and encouragement, tune into this episode, "Step into Your Calling with Faith, Not Fear with Dave Wernli.” Don't forget to subscribe to The Confident Woman Podcast. Each week, we bring you episodes that'll empower you throughout this journey to becoming your best and most confident self.

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